I’ve been wanting to do my Wordless Wednesdays again, and this picture was going to be it this week, but how could I not say anything about this???
Now, I can sort of see leaving your cart behind if you’re at the back of the parking lot and the only shopping cart return receptacle is way the hell back at the front of the parking lot and the kids are crying and you have to pee and it’s pouring down rain. But that usually isn’t how it is. There’s probably a shopping cart receptacle just a few parking stalls away from you. Maybe five, six, seven stalls at the most. But what if it was even ten spaces away?
Okay, let’s think about this. The parking stalls are what, eight feet wide? So that’s — eight times ten — eighty feet, right? So that’s like, eighty steps each way for the average adult. Eighty steps. That might sound like a lot for the lazier of citizens, but I bet you would walk eighty feet for any reason and not really even realize it was eighty feet. You’d walk eighty feet for a latte, for an ice cream cone, for a drink at the bar. It’s not that far.
But when it comes to shopping carts, people seem to think thirty or forty feet is just too far to push a cart to get it where it’s supposed to be. I know… I know… stores send the baggers out to collect them all and bring them back to the door for our convenience. It just seems rude to me to leave them out flopping all over the parking lot (unless you really really have to pee and it’s raining and the kids are screaming) rather than pushing them just a few — even several — parking stalls away.
But THIS GUY?!
WHAT. THE. HELL???
What? This guy couldn’t go the additional THREE FEET to deposit the shopping cart back into the shopping cart receptacle that was RIGHT THERE??? They didn’t see the sign that said, “Please Return Shopping Carts Here”? I mean… they said PLEASE! They weren’t too feeble to tip the cart back and hook the wheels into the planter so that it wouldn’t roll away, but they were too feeble to walk it around that little rail? “But the carts in the receptacle are all over the place” you say. Okay, how hard is it to push them all up and into each other? I’m not the shopping cart bagger kid, but I am (or at least try to be) considerate to my fellow shoppers.
I think that’s what bugs me. Someone didn’t give enough of a shit about their fellow shoppers to put their damn shopping cart where it frikkin’ belonged. They were done with their shopping and wanted to get back to their own day regardless of any other people that might come to the store later and not be able to park all the way in, and/or they didn’t give a crap that the kid that has to run out to grab the carts IN THE RAIN was going to have to spend more time in the rain because they didn’t think past their own self.
Disclosure: My oldest daughter had an after school job at the grocery store down the hill from our house. She was the kid that had to run around the parking lot to collect the carts that others were too inconsiderate to return to the receptacles. She had to do that even if it was raining. Some days, when I would come down to pick her up, I’d find her soaking wet because she had been walking all over the parking lot collecting carts when the clouds opened up on her. Being a teenage girl, she thought more about looking cool than being prepared, and so would sometimes forego the bright yellow slicker if the rain wasn’t falling right as she went out to gather the carts. Most days, she was lucky. Other days? Not so much. So maybe I’m more sensitive to people being inconsiderate in public because I was a mom of one of those bagger-slash-shopping-cart-wranglers, but I don’t think so.
It’s just rude behavior. Period.
Then yesterday, I saw considerate shopping cart behavior. I watched an older woman — I wanna say like 70 something — take her cart, hands and head shaking in that way that older folks start to shake, a good six spaces over to the shopping cart receptacle to return the cart that she had used to do her shopping. Then — get this — she walked all the way back!
IF A SEVENTY YEAR OLD SHAKY HANDS OLD LADY CAN RETURN HER CART, WE ALL CAN!
So, in this extremely busy shopping season, let’s not forget to be considerate to our fellow shopper. Put your cart away… even if it’s eighty feet each way. Let’s face it… with all the food and desserts and egg nog we’re about to consume, we could use the exercise.



maybe that cart’s a renegade and didn’t want to follow the pack?
This post could be a metaphor for life. I’m constantly walking around thinking, WHAT THE HELL, people??
But you stated it much more eloquently. It’s a total pet peeve of mine.
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I always return my carts, and it drives me up the wall when I go to pull into a parking spot to find a shopping cart in my way. I agree…whom ever this cart belonged too…sucks
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Trader Joes and Costco have parking lots from hell. I don’t know why, but every time I go to either one of them I am guaranteed craziness. The shopping carts are everywhere, people take up two or three spaces and there is rampant road rage.
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Ok, here is the deal…. I agree with you. If you can put your basket away people! That is way to close to have any kind of excuse. But now here is my but;). When I have a car full of little ones (especially when they are fighting or the parking lot is very crowded) I really don’t like leaving them to 5 or 6 stalls away. It just doesn’t seem safe. But now that the kids are getting a little older I feel a little better about leaving them to do it.
I ALMOST ALWAYS, ALWAYS put my cart away even with the kids in the car, even when things are crazy-crazy, but sometimes I admit that you just can’t. Maybe someone is choking on the popcorn from Target, or the doctor finally calls back and you quick just ditch the cart. It does happen sometimes…
But I’m totally distracted by parking spots being referred to as “stalls”…is that a regional thing? I’ve honestly never heard that before. It’s either a spot or a space, I really didn’t know what the heck a stall was when I first started reading. So funny!
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I do have to say that I never, never leave it in the middle of a stall. I tend to park right next to the receptacle so I don’t have to worry about it;).
A to the nnoying for sure. What is wrong with these people? And to park it in a perfectly good spot? I thought people who shopped at Trader Joes knew better than that.
Lazy with a capital L and I would have used the upper case even if it didn’t begin the sentence. Lock the kids in the car, do a little sprint run, eyes on your own car to and from. It can be done. If you’re considerate. Oh, and not LAZY. I bet the person who left that cart RIGHT BESIDE the cart keeper is also the type who parks right up against your door. I’ve needed to enter my car from the passenger side ONE TWO MANY EFFING times because someone was ‘in a hurry’ or simply couldn’t be bothered to see that they were clearly giving the driver of the car next to them 2 inches to open their door. Come on people, we share this world. *shakes head*
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PREACH IT!
Super annoying. Wanna know my secret? I purposely park near someone who is unloading their groceries and I offer to take their cart of their hands before they put it away (or leave it stranded in the parking lot). I also offer that same cart to people walking by as I unload my stuff into the car because I know damn well they’re gonna walk all the way to the front of the store and grab one there so I kind of insist they take mine instead. ; )
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I do agree that cart return isn’t hard. And can be great exercise!! I don’t think that it is the end of the world if you have courtesy – don’t leave the cart in the middle of the parking spots and definitely not against someone’s car! Those employees have a paycheck for a reason, that is bagging groceries, that I just paid an arm and a leg for & collecting carts and stocking shelves.
Just another sign of an all too common and growing trend – people in their own world only thinking about themselves. You see it every day in oh so many ways. All the people with their ear-buds in, tuning out the world, texting who-knows-what to to who-knows-who while they trip over things they don’t see while they stare at their phone.
People (and this behavior seems to be stronger as the persons age gets lower) don’t think about others much any more. It is all about the now. How many 17 year olds do you know that think about the consequences of their actions? How will doing/not doing something affect others – whether I know that person or not (which shouldn’t matter in the least).
OK, stepping off the soap box.
In short. I totally agree with you! =)
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